"Oh, hello Ronald. Are you looking for my son? I will call Ben right now. Ben? Good morning, Mr.Connor. Yes, please. I need to talk to him.

  Sure, he'll be here in a sec. Oh, sorry, I forgot. He's not here now. He went out with some friends. Didn't he tell you? I thought you were his best friend.

  Oh, it's a pity（怜悯）. What happens is that I lost my cell（细胞） phone and he couldn't call me. Anyway, I'm leaving then. Thank you so much, Mr.Connor. Have a nice day. Hey, wait.

  You don't look good. You're having problems, aren't you? I can recognize that expression. It's for a woman, right? I know that. Well, yeah, but I don't want to bother（烦扰） you, sir.

  I wanted to talk to Ben. But if he's not here, all right. If you don't want to talk, then that's okay. Have a great day. Yeah, it's a woman. It's my girlfriend.

  We fight all the time. I don't know what to do. I see. Young couples usually fight, son. Is it serious? Maybe you can help me.

  Ben told me you and your wife live happy. How do you do that? Look, I'm not an expert, but maybe I can give you some advice about having a relationship. It could be an honor to hear that. I really need to solve my couple problems. Well, based（以…作基础） on my experience, the first thing you have to do is get to know yourself.

  Take the time to appreciate（欣赏） yourself and get in touch（触） with your emotions（情感）. This will help you to be able to express yourself clearly and more effectively（有效地）. Not knowing how to regulate（管制） your emotions（情感） and express them healthily is bad. It can negatively affect your mental（智力的） well（井）-being（存在）. Couples always forget about that. They just think about his or her couple and forget about themselves.

  That's something wrong. I think I get it. You are saying that I should focus on myself first before my partner. That's correct, because maybe you are the problem, or maybe not, but you will never know that if you don't get to know yourself first. Do you understand? Yes, I get it.

  That's something interesting.