Oscar, your mother sent me to ask you if you're ready to Oscar, what happened? Hello dad, I'm sorry, I'm really sorry, I can't do it. What do you mean you can't do it? Oscar, everyone is waiting for you, and why haven't you gotten dressed? You're getting married（娶） in one hour. I know, I know, today's my wedding（ 婚礼）, but I'm scared（惊慌的） that I don't know what to do.

  Oh my boy, I think we need to talk about what's happening. Let's see. All right, tell（ 告诉） me, what's happening? Why are you so scared? Dad, I'm scared, I know, I love Clara, I love her so much, she's the love of my life. Okay（好）, you love Clara, we all know that song, you are one of the cutest couples（夫妇）.

  Then what is the matter（物质）? If you're so sure you love her, why are you scared? What's going on? That's the thing, I love her so much that I want her to be happy, the happiest woman. I want to make her happy, but I'm not sure if I'm the one, the right one. What if I mess（ 弄乱） it up?

  I'm in my 20s, is it still too early to get married? Am I making a mistake? I'm about to start my own family. Children, a new house, a dog, oh damn（讨厌）. Okay, stop that now. Oscar, what you're feeling now is something very normal（正常的）, son.

  You just got cold feet, that's it. I don't think it's Gamophobia. Gamophobia? What is that? Am I sick or something like that? Of course not.

  Gamophobia is a fear（害怕） of commitment（委托事项） or marriage（结婚）. But that's not your case（情况）. I told you, you just got cold feet and that's normal. You feel too frightened（害怕的） to do something that you had planned to do, something important. But let me tell you something, I also got cold feet before getting married. Seriously（严重地）, but you and mom, you have an awesome（ 可怕的） marriage（结婚） life.

  You love each other so much that I always dreamed（做梦） of having a marriage（结婚） like yours. Well, we've been together for more than 30 years and hasn't been easy, but we love each other. But as I was telling you, I was also frightened（使惊恐） one day before getting married（娶）. My dad came to me and talked to me back then and he gave me some tips（小费 v.给....小费） about marriage（结婚）.